Ice, I really like what you said-


"IF ANYONE BELIEVES THE GOVERNMENT HAS ANY RIGHT TO INTERFER IN OUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS THEN THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR THEM TO BE."


And that pretty much sums up the mind set of most people today.& Not only do they think BB has the right to interfer, they think that they are not getting what they pay for if something isn't done.& I have a "friend" who called the cops and complained about his neighbor because he didn't think that they worked, assumed that they did drugs, and was afraid they might come break into his house.& You know what, at no point did he ever indicate to me that he had tried to make friends or even talk to them.&


I am&privileged&enough to be learning alot prior to any marriage (under God not state), and&she will understand and know upfront that we are responsible adults and not requiring any interference&or&social aid from any agency.& I realize that not everyone&is so privileged and therefore have to handle whatever situation arises as best they can.