I am not sure if the links below will work if they do not just follow the instructions:
Click on "User CP" (is the control panel)
http://forum.suijuris.net/usercp.php?
Then on the left click on "Edit Profile"
http://forum.suijuris.net/profile.php?do=editprofile
Then scroll down a little bit to the section titled:
Optional Information - All information will be viewable by other forum members.
You will see:
Instant Messaging
You may enter your registered identity for the instant messaging networks if you would like other visitors to be able to contact you using that medium. ICQ Number:
AIM Screen Name:
MSN Messenger Handle:
Yahoo! Messenger Handle:
Populate any of your IM IDs in the proper fields and we will also be able to see your IM handles and if we have the proper IM software we will be able to make contact with you.