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Originally Posted by Sweed
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Try this.
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Sweed, I doubt that is going to help as he is fed up with paytriots and broke.
Bastion, I hear you man.
I am not going to tell you you are being cursed by God, or you have brought this down on yourself by doing anything wrong.
And it would certainly would not appear that you are mentally on the fence, I am with you on that.
Know what you are? Exposed! You have a lot to lose, at least in your mind, and it is all out there, just waiting to be grabbed. So whoever told you you could send the IRS some certified letters and they would just bug off was a complete fraud, whether they believed in their paperwork or not.
This idea is a bit like having your attorney send the mafia a letter when they kidnap your children, expecting them just to let the kids come home even though they know you hold 10 million worth of ransom insurance or have a ton of cash sitting in the bank.
If everything you have is placed in the open, then the sharks will come out. Plain and simple, I don't care what paperwork you have done and what name you call yourself by.
So, back to my point - you are exposed. And they are holding your "things" ransom to get what they want. And don't think they just want money, they want to control you.
And they will, as long as you live in fear of the loss of your job, your home, and your perfect credit.
Am I saying you are weak or at fault for wanting to hang on to these things?
No! I can only relate to you here, because this is a trait that most of us share, we cannot bear to loose what we have worked for all our lives.
But stop and think, what good is the $1,300 house payment, the $80K job, and the perfect credit score if you have nothing but stress and fear and are scraping the bottom of the noodle can to stay alive?
Just calling it how I see it - you are really killing yourself for what you have already lost - or maybe, what you never really had.
I know the purpose of your post was mainly to vent, and can relate with you. I have been there, but the situation was slightly more abrupt and forced, and I was without a shred of preparation or helpful council. The abruptness and speed with which the entire situation was over was to my benefit in the end, because I was able to quickly adjust to a COMPLETE and TOTAL LOSS of EVERYTHING I owned short of a few wedding gifts and my marriage, the one thing in my life worth more to me than all my material things.
So I moved on, started fresh, and am not bitter. Know that this site would not exist were it not for my experience. So the only reason you can vent here is because I was slammed about as low as a man can go, then I picked myself up, started clean, and held my head (and bird finger) high the whole while. Then I started this site so you can vent. Think about it. You can do the same...
It is not to late to stop for a moment and ask yourself, what do you REALLY have to loose? Then ask yourself if you can bear to loose it. From there, you can decide what is worth your energy and what is a waste.
I wish you the best.