[quote=weasel]Break it down for me:

What specifically about a marriage license puts a married couple at a disadvantage, or how does it empower the state?

some states dont accept common law marriages now. at one time they all did, when you get a marriage license you agree to the rules of the state in that marriage. the state rules over the marriage.

common law marriage,...the state donsnt rule squat! but these days they try to get around that with stuff like PAL O MONY etc...best to do a prenup and cover all the ground you plan to step on. i have been workin on mine for over a year now its deep but the better to cover my ass with.