I read your other post gldskr. Good info. I agree totally with you about getting a divorce case out of administrative process. I've been dragged around, wrung out, and bled dry of all resources by this process.
I was thinking this same thing when I started this thread, but given the propensity of the courts to walk right over people, I figured the research information would be useful for us IF we get dropped back into the process. Or on the other hand, it would make an interesting and useful project for providing ammo for those other unfortunate people who haven't or won't wake up. Last line of defense, give those thugs no wiggle room for obscuring "best interest of the child". Let's define it for them - IF it has to get to that point.
I really want more info on your SMJ work in a divorce case! I need a lot of help putting the paperwork together, as I am ready to try this RIGHT NOW. I'm in a position where I need to be making some important efforts immediately in my case. SMJ would be perfect.
You said this in the other thread:
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Draw up your own petition for divorce and file it if the court rules in your favor. If not, then you will have to appeal. If your SMJ challenge is done properly it will be unrebuttable. Absent a contract, the state and your ex have no standing.
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Help me with this. What do you mean "draw up your own petition for divorce and file it"? Does that not put you back into their jurisdiction, and the mess starts all over?
Another interesting tidbit I just saw on another new post here, links to an article dealing with
Washington's "RCW" is not law. More ammo that can be used in an SMJ hearing?
Seems that there is a lot of really good foundation material on this forum for breaking the state's deathgrip on families through divorce. If there were no financial incentive (for either the mother or the state), I think families would be a lot stronger, and divorce would stop being a tool of vengance for women who "become unhappy in the relationship".