After Francis' remark, I think it exposes something that we should have addressed at the onset, mameye.
Is your wife truly supportive in this move. I have found among the fold here, that the wife rarely enjoys this sparring we do the Powers that Be. If she isn't totally for it and biting at the bit to make it happen, Francis's thoughts might be well heeded.
I am sorry I raced ahead assuming all was in full agreement...and it may be, but that kind of presumptuousness is what gets
me in trouble sometimes!
scottinalaska