[Akira]

No doggie??? ouch !

Next, "spoon" will be a no-no, cause it's doggie while "laying on your side". lol


Just my slightly off topic opinion....

It is interesting / constructive to get a studious viewpoint of the matter however... as it is a topic that needs to be clarified, as I consider physical union to be one of God's greatest gifts. Statisticly, most american women deny themselves the pleasure of a satisfying physical relationship with their partner, because of the maligned teachings of their youth.

I remember having discussions years ago, with catholic friends who attended catholic schools, with priests and nuns for instructors. They were taught, they could / should only "touch themselves" when there was a wash cloth between their private parts and their hand. To touch yourself derectly was a major no-no.

Another curious example: if you catch a european woman naked, she covers her crotch, but if you catch an american woman naked, she covers her breasts. Go figure !

Personally, I don't do porn...

At the risk of over simplification... I explain it this way.. "If I can't touch, why would I want to look?"

Most women don't look like the women in magazines... nor do most women 'perform' like the women in videos.. and these things only build unreal expectations and set the stage for disappointment.

We have become a nation of "watchers", instead of "doers". I have many friends (no offense intended) who sit in front of the tv, and drink their beer while living vicariously through the quarterback, or some other player on the team.

I don't watch football, I'd rather play. I don't watch porn, I'd rather play... lol

Between unrealistic expectations seeded by porn, and the governments undermining relationships with the temptation of promised 'financial security' from human services, is it any wonder we have a divorce rate of more than 50%?

Folks today, search, in vain, for their 'soul mate', expecting that to mean the end of disagreements or challenges within the relationship. But if someone really loves you, don't they, non judgementally, challenge you to be the best you can? And if you truely love someone, don't you want to challenge yourself, and be the best you can, for them? If you find someone that you truely love, and they love you... Don't expect them to know how to please you, teach them how.. it's half the fun.

No expectations, no disappointments..


For HIS Glory,
Akira