[FlunkyNoMo]

ICE- "Cognitive Dissonance"
If you understand this you'll understand why they can't believe your truths. It would shake their very foundation. They must find fault to protect themselves. Do you remember the fog when you first came to realize you'd been shafted? The weak turn away and go back to the bliss of ignorance, it's so much less work!
It might help to explain "Cog. Dis." first, perhaps easing their defensive response.


& FNM