[Ice]

It sounds to me like you were kidnapped and held against your will.& I would think about looking into that just a little deeper.


Could we have some more details?& Is the mother your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend?& Was this an initial child support hearing... one in which the woman has enlisted the assistance of the court in order to reach into your wallet?... or, is there an outstanding order for payment of child support?& I could assume that this is an initial hearing ... but I&don't like&to assume.


If this is an initial hearing I would like to suggest that you do whatever it takes to get the woman to understand the role of government does not include interferring in your&relationship and that by inviting them into the relationship she is making the child a "ward of the court".& She will be subjecting herself and the child to the will of the court in much more than just "child support".& As far as that child is concerned, if she makes anything that "they" consider a wrong step, she is screwed!& You have seen stories about how people are thrown in jail for disciplining their child?


Do whatever it takes to remain on friendly terms with the woman and take the opportunity to keep the court out of the relationship.& Share your knowledge with her.& Let her see what is really going on.& And try not to come off as some "conspiracy nut" as you attempt to explain the real deal.& Wouldn't it be nice to not have to argue about visitation and all the crap that goes with it, and take the opportunity to teach the next generation the ways of freedom?& If you need to mend fences with the woman, I would suggest that you make the attempt.& (yeah, I know it can sometimes be a very difficult task... and may take some time... never expect it to happen overnight.)


I can understand seeking "remedy" in court for some things, as a last resort... but this is not one of them.& Anyone that seeks the courts intervention in their personal and family&relationships is a fool.& It is one way of telling the gov. that you are incompetent and can't make proper decisions in your life.& But, more than that, it is an affront to the Creator.& It is akin to putting the gov. above HIM.& Why place your faith in the gov. when your faith can be placed in HE that created you?& Who's your master?& Who's your King?& So, where should you seek help in these personal matters?& It may be worth your while to make that point.


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