My nieces

[jessye_1]

My nieces were removed from my sister's home by DHS-CPS, My sister is demed(sp?) unfit, she is, she does not feed her girls, bath them she leaves them with complete strangers moved strangers in to her home. I have pettioned to have the girls in my home, I have a 4bd/1.5bath home I am buying, DHS-CPS told my that because I followed the rules and took my nieces to DHS in 2006, and because I have contact with my father that I am unfit. Any suggustions to get the girls in my home, so I know they are safe and loved? Jessie

[ezrhythm]

Looks like you listed good things and they say your unfit?

Besides the fact that they were taken away from her, would your sister sign documents for you to have them?

[Livefire]

It seems that DHS is concerned by the fact that your contact with your father is an issue. How is he involved in this matter?? Perhaps they are worried that sis is going to have contact with the kids.....more info needs to be given to anyone attempting to help you.

Its going to be a huge uphill battle because DHS has already seized custody of the children and like they say, possesion is 9/10ths of the law. Its also going to be tough because by the very fact you have either petitioned DHS or the family court has given them complete jurisdiction in the matter.

[jessye_1]

I wont have contact with my father. He is moving out of town. My sis wont have contact w/the girls because, in the oldest 7 yrs she has been molested by at least 3 of my sister's boyfriends. the younest at 3 almost died of starvation at 1.5 years of age, and was molested by at least 4 men. So, I could not let them be put back into a situation where it could happen again. DHS told me that I have to go before a councl, and prove I am a good person. I thought about taking pics of my home, having past, present employers, friends, and anyone else I can think of send mailed, sealed letters stating what kind of person the believe me to be, how long they have known me, and how the know me. I also thought, about trying to convince my sister to sign over custody of the girls to me, but I do not think she will. Because when she lived with me she wanted to use me and I would not let her, go party while I watched the girls and missed work. She only calls me when she needs money. Thanks, Jessie

[jessye_1]

You know your response was not helpful. Both times I have posted were after 12am, after being up for over 20hrs.



What makes you think that you can use the DHS-CPS finding that the kids were unsafe to attack your sister, and then complain that they have it all wrong with you?

My sister and I do not have the same mental health issues. I have not been diagnosed with boarder line schizophrenia and manic depressive disorder.

PS. Why not throw up on the board the petition you sent in?

This I do not understand.

So I guess, if you do not want to help and only criticize please do not post. I am only looking for help.

[free*to*be*me]

jessye 1,
You need to learn one thing about the DHS, THEY are not on your side nor your sisters side, they will take a child as fast as lighting can strike, NEVER, NEVER call them into a family matter, if your sister drops them off to you KEEP them and let her try to get them back FROM you, now that they have them it will be like a camel going through the eye of a needle to get them back, you see all they think about is how much they can collect on these childrens bonds, and the only thing they will see fit is putting them with a total stranger so they can keep the children in there clutches, there will be hearing after hearing and still nothing will be accomlished so the children can be kept as long as possible to form there little minds to society as they see fit, also a guardian at litem will be assighned to them, what ever you do don't trust that person, they will use everything and anything against you, don't tell them anything that would bring new evidence into the case, NOTHING, the only interest DHS has now is how much money can be collected from all of you, including your sister, for child support and anything else that comes along. I am the one that placed the posting about the baby being stolen without a birth cert. it has been since oct and they still have that baby in there clutches and won't give him up, the mom only gets to see him 2 hours a week and they refuse to place him with family, because they will lose control. Good-Luck if you want to keep in contact, private message me.

[weishaupt1776]

Hmmmm . . I've never done DHS stuff, but in general; they are an agency under the executive branch, therefore subject to the Administrative Procedures Act (APA) of your state

Any time an "agency action" affects one's "substantial rights" they can have an "administrative hearing" by an administrative law judge

I would default the DHS FIRST by using the Clyde Hyde default course in the members only downloads

Here is a brief that allegedly got someone's kids back CLICK Here is the history behind it CLICK

Your nieces are just tokens for the local agency to claim money from the Federal Government. That you are family dosen't matter, even if the law says that the children should if at all possible be placed with family first. The programs are many as well is the compensation to the state and county to put ypur neices in foster homes. I wish you good luck!!

[robhalford88]

Whenever you have a situation like this, you need to use negative averrments.
The affiant has not seen nor been made aware of any facts or evidence that shows the affiant is of bad character and believes that none exists.

That type of thing. Put them on the defensive and your chance of winning is higher.